If she says âYes, but Thursday betterâ: âThursday works. 8pm at [place]. Send me your # again so I donât lose itâ (if you didnât save properly) âWhere do you want to go?â âWhat time works for you?â âIdk whatever you wantâ (all low status). 3. What to Never Text (Toddâs Red Flags) | Donât | Why | |--------|------| | âHow are you?â | Lazy, forces her to entertain you | | âHeyyyâ / âWhatâs upâ | Zero value, generic | | Paragraphs | Overinvestment before rapport | | Emotional declarations | âI miss youâ before meeting = scary | | Double text within hours | Desperate frame | | âSorry for late replyâ | Youâre a busy man, no apology needed | 4. Recovery from Non-Reply If she doesnât reply after 24â48h:
Reference + Simple statement + Soft ping -PimpMyMind- Todd Valentine - Verbal Game Academy
âLooks like your phoneâs being moody â Iâll be at [place] Friday if you wanna prove youâre not boring đâ No reply after that â abort completely . Sheâs either not interested or high drama. 5. Sample Solid Text Exchange (Todd Style) You (2h after number): âX, cool talking at The Barlow. Iâm grabbing tacos now â hope you find a way to recover from that espresso martini đâ Her: âHaha my head hurts but worth it. Those tacos better be goodâ You (2h later): âThey were life-changing. Youâd approve despite your questionable cocktail tasteâ Her: âExcuse me, my taste is eliteâ You (next morning): âElite? Thatâs cute. Anyway â drinks Tue or Wed night. Pick oneâ Her: âWed worksâ You: â8pm, [bar name]. Donât be late or Iâll start without youâ 6. Final Calibration Rule Match her investment level â not higher. If she sends 1 word, you send 1 word or none. If she sends energy, reflect 80% of it. Solid text game is reacting less and leading more . If she says âYes, but Thursday betterâ: âThursday
A. Assumption frames âYou seem like the type to judge a cocktail by its garnishâ âI bet youâre secretly competitive at bowlingâ B. Callback to in-person connection âStill canât believe you thought [inside joke] was a real factâ âYou owe me a rematch on that [topic]â C. Micro-investment requests âSend me the name of that [band/place] you mentionedâ âWhatâs one song thatâs on your playlist right nowâ D. Break rapport (playful) âYour take on [thing] is cute but wrongâ âOkay youâre banned from picking the musicâ Phase 3 â The Date Logistics (Call > Text for day/time) Golden rule: After 4â6 playful exchanges â switch to direct logistics . Donât chat for days. âYou seem fun â letâs grab a drink Tuesday or Wednesday. Lmk which.â If she says âmaybeâ or âbusyâ without counter-offer â freeze out (no reply unless she re-engages). Sheâs either not interested or high drama
Want the actual PDF notes from Toddâs Verbal Game Academy on texting? I can summarize the full chapter if you specify.