Uncle Chester Us Beaches 20 Apr 2026

Uncle Chester is gone. The “us” has scattered to cities and suburbs, to jobs and new families. Even the old marker post was finally uprooted by a nor’easter three years ago. But Beaches 20 remains. The tide still turns. The heron still stands one-legged in the shallows. And when I close my eyes, I can still hear Uncle Chester’s gravelly voice, not telling me what to do, but simply saying: Look. Look how the light moves. Look how the sand holds your footprint for just a moment, then lets it go. That’s enough. That’s everything.

The last summer I saw Uncle Chester at Beaches 20, I was nineteen. He was eighty-three. The cottage had been sold that spring—his knees could no longer manage the dune stairs—but he insisted on one more visit. “Just for the day,” he said. We drove down together, just the two of us, in his rattling Ford pickup. The beach was empty except for a single family building a sandcastle far down the shore. Uncle Chester sat in his chair, and I sat beside him. For a long time, neither of us spoke. Then he pointed to the horizon and said, “You see how the light lies flat on the water? That’s the hour when the dead come back.” I thought he was being poetic. He was not. “My brother,” he said. “My first dog. My best friend from the war. And soon, me. But you—you keep coming back here. Promise me.” Uncle Chester Us Beaches 20

In the arithmetic of the heart, twenty is the number of years it took me to realize that Uncle Chester was not teaching us about beaches at all. He was teaching us about time—how to stand before its vast, indifferent ocean and not look away. How to borrow a stretch of shore, love it fiercely, and then, when your knees give out, hand it to the next person who will sit in the canvas chair and watch the waves. Uncle Chester is gone